Don't Worry, Be Happy

Recap of recent events:  LJ has maintained his weight since the tube wean despite having an ear infection and feeling uncomfortable.  He has the worst sweet tooth known to man. He has become completely averse to anyone besides me, myself and I feeding him (though Emily more luck than anyone else).  This makes for challenging mealtimes.  We cannot keep this up for the long haul so we are working on helping him bring his own hand to his mouth so he can be self-sufficient with finger foods.  We have been strategizing non-stop to figure out how to stop the two-year old tantrums when he doesn't get his peanut butter, graham crackers, popsicles, cookies or other favorite foods. 

It turns out every child does in fact need to have some green veggies and different varieties of protein.  We continue to search for the magical item(s) that might be accepted into LJ's repertoire of food. This week I bought some tofu, Barilla Plus pasta and some whey protein powder suplement.  I was successful at getting LJ to try the tofu, some basil pesto and also some Spanikopita all in a weeks work....as long as it was all washed down with some Nutella or peanut butter (what crazy combinations!).  All the while we are keeping our fingers crossed that he is eating enough and will not lose any weight at his next weight check, this coming week. 

Lew's right hand has been tight this week and is also causing added concern.  His therapists and I are all having a great deal of difficulty prying it open.  It can stay fisted like this all day, and at points he has blisters and skin peeling off his palm when I finally do get it to open up.  We've been going to our therapist at Children's who has made several different, custom hand splints to try to offer his hand some relief. She has also used joint compression and brushing techniques to further resolve the situation all to no avail.  We are meeting with the Psyiatrist to discuss the post-Botox aftermath the first week in June.  It's not clear to us what our options are.  It seems to me that his hand was better off before the Botox (though I can't prove it). The Botox was effective loosening LJ's right pec and right bicep, but that's worn off and  but his hand is quite useless to him right now. One thing that has been brought up by the doc and LJ's PT and OT in the past was the use of a medication called Artane. I hate to give my wee one a medication that he will need for the remainder of his life, especially when there are side effects.  It would be so great if there were some alternative treatments!

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An incident in the grocery store earlier this week has stayed on my mind. An older gentleman asked me what was wrong with LJ's hand.  LJ was riding in the grocery cart, sporting his "resting hand splint". I explained about LJ's cerebral palsy and that due to his tone the splint gave that hand and arm some much needed relief. But of course, the root of my discomfort lies in the fact that we are stuck in no-man's land and don't know whether or how we can help LJ's hand

The guy in the store was quite nice.  I don't and can't expect everyone in the world to be as sensitive to these adversities especially when they are just kids.  We all have our different trials and challenges in life.  LJ has just been working so hard and he is so empowered by his eating since the tube wean.  I just can't let a minute go by without trying to make the world a little easier for LJ, whether that's researching alternative medicine or signing up for a new therapy. People (kids especially) can't see that he didn't ask for things to be this way.  While they aren't intentionally being mean, it still hurts.

Perhaps I was already at my breaking point for the week; perhaps all the little moments this week just made me weak.  Who really knows why we have such strength some of the time and crumble during others.  in any case, I read a beautiful, moving post that brought me to tears to complete the week. On Following Elias the Boy that Could, here's a link to the post that made me turn to the Kleenex.  I think no matter who you are and what you have gone through or are going through in life, it will hit a chord. We all just want to be worry-free.